Monday, August 31, 2009

Things That Are Messy (Anna)

1. Feeding a baby.
2. Feeding rice cereal to a baby who is blowing raspberries.

I'll leave it to your imaginations.

Sunday, August 30, 2009

On the move!! (Anna)

My last post was about how babies do things incrementally and gradually. So of course Emmy has proved me wrong. Yesterday, completely out of the blue as far as we're concerned, Emmy started to...not crawl exactly...but move rapidly with intent.

She's been doing a lot of rolling over into a lizard pose, the kind that even the best yogi would be jealous of. And from that position, a lot of leg flailing ensues, accompanied by the occasional pulling up of knees to underneath her. But we thought she was a while from being able to create motion.

And then, last night, she started to...well...it wasn't really crawling...kind of like a worm wriggle where she pulls her knees up, wriggles and then stretches out again. But enough that she can wriggle the entire length of the bed!!

The funny thing is, it's all backwards. So she sees an object, wants it and reaches for it. Before she knows it, she's 12 inches further away from it than when she began. So she reaches for it again and finds herself halfway down the bed, looking longingly at the object of her affections with a perplexed look on her face as if to say "What went wrong?"

It is extremely cute and we are very impressed that she's suddenly figured out how to voyage across her domestic terrain.

Emmy has a tendency to do something once or twice and then not again at all for several weeks, so we'll see what happens with this. In the meantime, we firmly believe that our baby is the smartest little thing in the universe.

Friday, August 28, 2009

The first... (Anna)

In baby books, you're always asked to enter the date that babies did things for the first time. First time sitting up, first time rolling over, first time walking, first meal, first word.

But the thing about babies is that it's so gradual I'm never sure how to measure it.

For example, Emma is kind of sitting up by herself. That is, under certain circumstances, we can take away our hands or support and she doesn't fall over. Maybe it's for 5 seconds or maybe it's for a few minutes. It depends on how tired she is, what she's absorbed in doing, and what kind of surface she's on (i.e. she can do it on the flooor but not on the bed). Each day she gets a little better at it. So what date would we record? The date several weeks ago when her back muscles first seemed strong enough that she didn't slump over? The date in the future when she can sit up by herself for an extended period of time (whatever that means) no matter what the context? The date when we walk away, confident that she doesn't need our help (by which time she would have been doing it for months?)

Same with first roll over. She can now arch her back and roll over like a pro. She pushes herself up on our arms and adopts lizard pose, which she can hold for quite a long time, looking at us mischievously, as if she's tricked us. But for months she was practicing the moves and figuring out how to do it and there's wasn't one particular day when suddenly she went from lying on her back furled up as a newborn to rolling over. Again, impossible to measure. We just realised, one day, that it has become normal for her to do that.

Other milestones. She is now sleeping in her cot, instead of her co-sleeper (when she's not sleeping with us). We have been gradually transitioning her over for the last week or so because the co-sleeper was too small. We have passed the co-sleeper onto a three day old baby - a significant indication that our baby is growing up!

And today we are starting her on solids. We don't expect her to be able to swallow the food today - it takes practice. So is today her first meal? Or will that be the day that some of it ends up in her stomach? (How much?) Does a single mouthful make a meal? If not, then exactly how much does she have to eat before it counts?

And when she utters her first "word", what happens to our perception of all the "language" she is already babbling?

In the meantime, look at her go!

Saturday, August 22, 2009

An entire movie sans Emma (Anna)

When Emma's asleep, she wakes up frequently to look at us from under her sleepy, heavy eyelids to check that we are there. When we are, she goes back to sleep. When we're not, she cries.

This means that for several months, it has been impossible for us to have more than half an hour to ourselves when we're not in the bedroom. We have watched numerous movies with her curled up on our laps, because she won't stay asleep in the bedroom by herself.

But last night, we got through an entire episode of Criminal Minds - that's almost an hour of TV - without her interrupting us. And tonight, we watched an ENTIRE MOVIE, with her crying only once and quickly going back to sleep. Wow! I had forgotten what a luxury it is to watch a movie with Caroline without having a baby literally and figuratively between us.

I'm not going to be so bold as to suggest that this a new trend - any new parent knows better than to make generalizations from isolated behaviours, especially desirable ones - but, wow, what a treat!

Monday, August 17, 2009

Moments in Time 2 (Anna)

We are possibly the funniest we will ever be. All we have to do is put Emma's hand in our mouth and make a chomping noise and she giggles with glee. Throwing her in the air and rocking her above our head sends her into hysterics and if we sing hickory dickory dock at the same time, well, we could compete against the best acts from the Montreal Comedy Festival. Blowing raspberries on her belly gets more chuckles than a laughing hyena on laughing gas.

And the biggest joke of all? When we tell her it's time to go to sleep. You can hear her peals of laughter all the way down the street.

Friday, August 14, 2009

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Moments in time (Anna)

I've heard rumours that Emma won't be a baby forever and that I'll forget what she is like now. Both of those allegations are hard to believe, but enough people have said it for me to take it seriously.

So I want to record small details about my daughter, in the hope that words will be able to conjure up feelings that I never want to forget. So, for today - fingertips.

My daughter has the softest, sweetest pads on the tops of her fingers. She wraps them around our fingers and hands, runs them down our palms when she is feeding or needing cuddles. It's her way of checking in, to see if we're still there. They are soft and tiny, pink and plump, and so, so gentle, unblemished by age or wear. They make my heart melt every time our fingers connect. I want to remember them forever.

In other news, this sweet child grabbed clumps of my hair today with a death-grip and viciously whacked my head several times with her rattle. I felt like a bear being accosted by a caveman. I imagine that this, too, will pass. Otherwise she's going to be very unpopular with her school friends.

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